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Post by #LisaRinna on Feb 16, 2018 12:11:05 GMT -5
Who cares if she's pregnant? She can be a working mom like plenty others. All she has to do is drop hot singles and she can make a pregnant video and be iconic.
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Post by Waveyโจ๏ธ on Feb 16, 2018 12:46:25 GMT -5
Guess she's nutted and eating good๐๐
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Post by Relaxing Cup on Feb 16, 2018 13:07:58 GMT -5
look..... a man of many words.
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Post by Waveyโจ๏ธ on Feb 16, 2018 13:14:22 GMT -5
look..... a man of many words. Those Phillpe Chow meals is flexing on that body lol. I wouldn't have been suprised if she was preggo. She would work it out. Glad she's not tho at the same time๐คทโโ๏ธ
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Post by Active Aggressive on Feb 16, 2018 13:54:09 GMT -5
look..... a man of many words. Say Something by JT/Chris Stapleton comes to mind.
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Post by Albie on Feb 16, 2018 14:05:55 GMT -5
I hope not. That would be a STUPID move right now. Oh HELL no, not before she drops her album. Thank god for Roe v. Wade... Oh HELL no, not before she drops her album. Thank god for Roe v. Wade... IKR? Like...there's no 'classy' way for me to say this but ugh, feminists did not fight for you to do this to yourself, Cardi. Cardi has already denied this rumor though? As long as she's already on her way to the clinic I'm okay with being wrong Yes please make Rihanna ft. Cardi B happen! Abortion clinic collabo!!! Yaaaaas! All of this is gross. What the hell people? That includes you snarks
I tried real hard to look at it from a "shock value" lens of the quality posters you all tend to be but its not there.
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Post by Deleted on Feb 16, 2018 14:44:04 GMT -5
Preggo or not preggo could care less, i just want good music and a album. Dont care about that dog she lays with offset and their drama, her uterus or her life. I want bangers and for her to mop the ground with her "competition" lol who am i kidding she is in a league of her own!
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Post by Caviar on Feb 16, 2018 16:38:41 GMT -5
Albie that was exactly what I was trying to say. Disgusting comments and disappointed where they came from.
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Post by Relaxing Cup on Feb 16, 2018 17:36:47 GMT -5
Honestly, the abortion talk in here was off putting to say the least. I have known people who have had to go through it and it wasn't a "let's go to the clinic!" type of day for them. It can often be the hardest thing a woman has to go through and many times leaves remnants of regret and depression.
I am very much pro-choice, but I don't think the comments in here were in anyway successful in "removing the stigma", nor does it feel like that was the intention. If anything, the comments made by some of you just prove a true conservative's beliefs about progressive's nonchalance on abortion.
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Post by Deleted on Feb 16, 2018 18:10:51 GMT -5
All of this is gross. What the hell people? That includes you snarks [/p]
I tried real hard to look at it from a "shock value" lens of the quality posters you all tend to be but its not there. [/quote] Honestly, the abortion talk in here was off putting to say the least. I have known people who have had to go through it and it wasn't a "let's go to the clinic!" type of day for them. It can often be the hardest thing a woman has to go through and many times leaves remnants of regret and depression. I am very much pro-choice, but I don't think the comments in here were in anyway successful in "removing the stigma", nor does it feel like that was the intention. If anything, the comments made by some of you just prove a true conservative's beliefs about progressive's nonchalance on abortion. See that's the problem we are addressing, the fact that abortion is usually the hardest thing a woman has to go through and treated as such. It REALLY shouldn't be that big a deal, it's her legal right if she wants to do it and I would much rather treat it with nonchalance than act like it's something that would ruin her life and scar her forever. Some of the closest people in my life have gotten abortions, none of this comes from obliviousness from to the pain women go through when they get an abortion, in fact its the OPPOSITE. A lot of women feel like abortions are so traumatic because we build them up to be unspeakable/horrible/degrading events and talking about it being an option nonchalantly without judgement IS helping decrease the stigma(not saying it's always done successfully but my god no one is arguing she should have an abortion against her will) by treating it as something that isn't traumatic/wrong. I'm down to just agree to disagree with you all cause I get this is a heated subject but please don't just label this under "shock value" these are my true and honest beliefs and I would appreciate them being respected.
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Post by Relaxing Cup on Feb 16, 2018 18:37:30 GMT -5
This could easily be an old video. It could be, but I don't think it is. I should have added this came from her instastories from 8 hours ago and her hair is the exact same as it was from last night's performance. They probably just recorded it after.
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Post by Oprah on Feb 16, 2018 19:51:32 GMT -5
Honestly, the abortion talk in here was off putting to say the least. I have known people who have had to go through it and it wasn't a "let's go to the clinic!" type of day for them. It can often be the hardest thing a woman has to go through and many times leaves remnants of regret and depression. I am very much pro-choice, but I don't think the comments in here were in anyway successful in "removing the stigma", nor does it feel like that was the intention. If anything, the comments made by some of you just prove a true conservative's beliefs about progressive's nonchalance on abortion. I get that terminating a pregnancy is traumatic and I shouldn't have been flippant about it. I know friends who've gone through it and it was rough. I also know friends who had babies by men who treat them like s**t and completely f**ked up their lives doing so. That's obviously what Cardi's doing here if she's really pregnant and keeping it. She's in a terrible relationship with a dude who publicly humiliates her very other week and is on the verge of making it, having this baby would be a disaster.
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Post by Glove Slap on Feb 16, 2018 20:09:26 GMT -5
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Post by Deleted on Feb 16, 2018 20:44:47 GMT -5
I wasn't aiming for shock value, but I have admittedly always been flippant about the topic (I think one of my first five posts on Pulse is me ranting in RT about how I could never have kids) so it's hard for me to care about whether or not I prove any conservative's point...they wouldn't even be wrong with me, sorry to say. Never had an abortion but I had one scare when I was young and frankly I was more traumatized by the thought of having to drop out of college. I've known people on both ends of the spectrum so it's not that I don't know how stressful and depressing it can be. I just know that it can also be a very matter-of-fact decision, and in my mind that's how it should be - well, at first. I actually don't agree with abortion after the fourth month barring a medical emergency, so assuming the rumor is true Cardi is very close to the point where this is not up for discussion anymore.
tl;dr though. I don't assume Cardi would look at it the way I do. Cardi does not need to be pregnant by Offset, but she's young and dumb and in lurve and the inner stripper in her just wants a home, which being on the road all the time is not going to do for her. So yeah, an abortion probably would traumatize her b/c lbr, it's what she needs (or needed) to do, but we all know that it's not what she wants to do. She wants to be wifed up.
I really do think she's preggo even if she keeps saying she's not so I need her to figure out what the move is. And either way, she needs to clean out her whole team b/c that is not the kind of people you need around you in the biz.
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Post by Glove Slap on Feb 16, 2018 21:07:33 GMT -5
We might need an educational interlude right here.
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Post by Relaxing Cup on Feb 17, 2018 3:43:53 GMT -5
From one Queen to another, I love seeing them together.
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Post by Albie on Feb 17, 2018 8:27:08 GMT -5
snarks we are going to agree to disagree and I'm dropping it after this as I know this is off-topic but you're putting words in my mouth. I've made no reference to the stigma or the society piece of it at all. You're right. That's not what should make it a big deal. But it is still a big deal in that its a difficult decision for any woman to decide whether its the right time to keep a child or not. This hits too close to home right now as one of my best friends just went through this and she didn't stay up wondering what people would think of her if she did it...she simply had to decide if it was time to be a mom or not. And that is a difficult, personal and serious decision. That is the specific thing I was defending against when admonishing the flippant comments.
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Post by Deleted on Feb 17, 2018 9:54:58 GMT -5
snarks we are going to agree to disagree and I'm dropping it after this as I know this is off-topic but you're putting words in my mouth. I've made no reference to the stigma or the society piece of it at all. You're right. That's not what should make it a big deal. But it is still a big deal in that its a difficult decision for any woman to decide whether its the right time to keep a child or not. This hits too close to home right now as one of my best friends just went through this and she didn't stay up wondering what people would think of her if she did it...she simply had to decide if it was time to be a mom or not. And that is a difficult, personal and serious decision. That is the specific thing I was defending against when admonishing the flippant comments. Relaxing cup brought up the stigma/society piece from my original post, and given how that was my main point I thought that was your issue with it. Sorry for misinterpreting, I should have worded my post better cause I see how it comes across like I'm lumping your and Relaxing Cups points together when they aren't the same. I understand your point and it's valid, I don't mean to imply that decreased stigma would make it an easy decision and not still a huge/traumatic event for countless women, and I certainly did not mean to be saying that women who find it difficult only do because of the stigma/care so much about that. I was specifically talking about how I think decreased stigma/treating the subject casually(depending on the context/time/place ofc) makes the decision less traumatic for women who 100% don't want the child but have more issues with the moral/cultural perception of abortion. It's never an easy decision, my sister has had an abortion and her situation was like your friends, not about the stigma and about whether she could give a child the best life possible at that time. The thing I appreciated most about Oprah and Cynthia's comments the fact that they displayed no negative connotations with getting an abortion. I understand the issue with the flippancy of Oprah and Cynthia's comments/when discussing this stuff, but tbh Cynthia is a woman she gets to say whatever she wants about this and no one with a penis really has the right to be offended or be displeased with how she discusses abortion. I should have just liked their posts and not made my own/followed up cause they both did a better job clarifying their points than I did lol. Anyway, if she's denying she's pregnant I'm inclined to believe this is all just a rumor. If she was pregnant I feel like she wouldn't be so firm in her denial.
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Post by Bhad Bill on Feb 17, 2018 14:18:04 GMT -5
Love that picture of Lil Kim and Cardi!
I went to my cousins last weekend and they are 12 and 14. They are obsessed with Cardi. She really appeals to everyone. So impressed.
We watched all her videos and my aunt was so excited over Cardi, she said Cardi was so 'versitile' between La Modelo, Finesse, and No Limit lmfao.
And yes the 14 y.o. was rapping some of those lyrics ๐๐
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Post by Relaxing Cup on Feb 17, 2018 22:14:13 GMT -5
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Post by Deleted on Feb 17, 2018 22:47:27 GMT -5
Ok i said I didnt care about her life just her music but heated . Just flabbergasted she is allowing offset to use her. This isn't hearsay i watched him for my self.
Interviewer asks what was it like to propose in front of a rap crowd in Philly and why so publicly
And this motherfucker goes
It was good for our record motorboat, and it was good for me and my girl.
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Post by think pink. on Feb 17, 2018 22:48:39 GMT -5
I never trusted Offset from the beginning. He only started to publicly claim her as his girl when Bodak Yellow popped.
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Post by Hashtag Pow on Feb 17, 2018 23:55:27 GMT -5
Why are yโall so butt hurt about the abortion jokes? Itโs definitely not that serious.
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Post by Deleted on Feb 18, 2018 0:32:03 GMT -5
Why are yโall so butt hurt about the abortion jokes? Itโs definitely not that serious. those "butt hurt" people did a really good job at explaining why they didn't like them though and we were all able to have an interesting respectful discussion about it. For such a sticky topic I was incredibly impressed by how well Albie and Relaxing Cup handled themselves, I wish more people who were offended by abortion jokes would be able to explain themselves while being respectful. Albie in particular clarified why he found offensive in a way that was actually insightful to me and I appreciated getting to hear elaborated, and he did so in a way that wasn't attacking me or anyone else, just explaining why he found those jokes hard/tasteless. I think maybe you need to reread the last page if you don't understand their side because they did a very good job at expressing it.
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Post by Hashtag Pow on Feb 18, 2018 0:55:58 GMT -5
I read it all, and found the entire back and forth unnecessary to begin with.
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Post by Deleted on Feb 18, 2018 3:48:17 GMT -5
I never trusted Offset from the beginning. He only started to publicly claim her as his girl when Bodak Yellow popped. I am actually still irrationally salty about that wack ass, half-assed proposal...how you gonna just tap her on the shoulder as she's walking away, give her a one-armed hug, and then just walk off stage without a kiss or anything? Like wtf. I could feel his ambivalence. But Cardi was so happy :( Well, on a positive note, I love the blonde 'do on her.
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Post by Albie on Feb 18, 2018 9:35:06 GMT -5
I read it all, and found the entire back and forth unnecessary to begin with. Not unnecessary enough for you to try to reincite it after everyone had moved right on though, right?
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Post by Relaxing Cup on Feb 18, 2018 21:32:05 GMT -5
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Post by Hashtag Pow on Feb 20, 2018 0:04:17 GMT -5
I read it all, and found the entire back and forth unnecessary to begin with. Not unnecessary enough for you to try to reincite it after everyone had moved right on though, right? Kick rocks. I gave a one line statement after reading it all. Hardly trying to reincite (and that isn't a word) anything.
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Post by Active Aggressive on Feb 20, 2018 3:09:31 GMT -5
reincite (and that isn't a word) Last time I checked, it means "to incite again". If you're gonna come for someone's vocabulary, at least come correct! But, hey, now you have a new word to add to your lexicon. #knowledgeispower
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