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Post by The Northern Star⭐ on Mar 6, 2009 12:06:06 GMT -5
She needs help.
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Post by Active Aggressive on Mar 6, 2009 12:23:50 GMT -5
Rihanna is not STUPID for taking Chris back. It's a sign that she is suffering from low self-esteem and other issues. Calling someone STUPID and DUMB is way too easy in a case like this, just because you can't understand or wouldn't do what she did herself. She needs therapy and counseling instead of ridicule. She could definitely stand a talk with Tina Turner, as she has been through that hell and knows it's not that easy to just turn your back and walk away on someone you love, even when you should. I really hope she has a wake up call before it's too late though.
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Post by Black Celebration on Mar 6, 2009 12:41:24 GMT -5
I'm stickin up for "If U Seek Britney". Fukin Rihanna sucks. How are Americans listenin to her crappy re"gay"ton music? Rihanna is stupid cuz she's kissing and touching somebody who makes bubblegum r&B and sent her to da hospital and has an ugly asss forehead to prove it. This is album is gonna be a flop Rihanna hasnt made any mistakes, she makes real music not generic pop Sure
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Post by ₫anny Jerz ♔ on Mar 6, 2009 13:40:00 GMT -5
Rihanna is not STUPID for taking Chris back. It's a sign that she is suffering from low self-esteem and other issues. Calling someone STUPID and DUMB is way too easy in a case like this, just because you can't understand or wouldn't do what she did herself. She needs therapy and counseling instead of ridicule. She could definitely stand a talk with Tina Turner, as she has been through that hell and knows it's not that easy to just turn your back and walk away on someone you love, even when you should. I really hope she has a wake up call before it's too late though. Exactly.
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Post by tsw2008 on Mar 6, 2009 14:20:52 GMT -5
Ur so f**king stupid, Rihanna hasnt made any mistakes, she makes real music not generic pop, is one of the most beautiful women on the planet, unlike headcase britney and by the way, aftering a multi-platinum success and all this publicity, her new album will be a guaranteed mutli-platnium success and not a flop f**k off britney stan I'm a fan of commericial music, Britney, and Rihanna, and I have to say your comment is ridiculous. Britney does not make generic pop, and Rihanna does not make "real music". It's still mass produced major label Mcdonalds music, even if it is good. Neither makes music. Everything is done for them by a team of producers.
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Post by David12 on Mar 6, 2009 15:52:15 GMT -5
I'm a fan of commericial music, Britney, and Rihanna, and I have to say your comment is ridiculous. Britney does not make generic pop, and Rihanna does not make "real music". It's still mass produced major label Mcdonalds music, even if it is good. Neither makes music. Everything is done for them by a team of producers. well thats ur opinion
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Post by jamrock16 on Mar 6, 2009 22:49:15 GMT -5
Oprah adressed the situation on her show today saying...
"If a man hits you once, he will hit you again"
She basically said that Rihanna needs some counselling and time to get her head straight and figure out the situation. Im beginning to think Rihanna's image is being damaged. This whole thing makes her look really, really weak.
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Post by Kishi KCM on Mar 6, 2009 23:21:28 GMT -5
Rihanna is suffering from low self-esteem, yes. Battered woman syndrome, yes. She's in love, yes. But she's also got an aDICKtion. That's what I see.
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Post by seanblain on Mar 7, 2009 1:29:40 GMT -5
Rihanna is not STUPID for taking Chris back. It's a sign that she is suffering from low self-esteem and other issues. Calling someone STUPID and DUMB is way too easy in a case like this, just because you can't understand or wouldn't do what she did herself. She needs therapy and counseling instead of ridicule. She could definitely stand a talk with Tina Turner, as she has been through that hell and knows it's not that easy to just turn your back and walk away on someone you love, even when you should. I really hope she has a wake up call before it's too late though. Rihanna is beyond stupid. She has no kids with him so she can't use that as an excuse like 99% of battered women do. Not only has she ruined her reputation and possibly commited career suicide, she is now looked at a joke and cannot be taken seriously..Any woman who gets bitten, punched and threatened then runs back to her man has no self respect at all. Even Oprah is basically calling her out and is having a show for people like Rihanna.
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Post by Dammn Baby on Mar 7, 2009 4:48:58 GMT -5
Rihanna is suffering from low self-esteem, yes. Battered woman syndrome, yes. She's in love, yes. But she's also got an aDICKtion. That's what I see. He'd have to have her dickmatized because he ain't exactly pretty.
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Post by Deleted on Mar 7, 2009 15:33:29 GMT -5
According to FOX News, Chris and Rihanna plan to co-author a book and do talk show appearances about the realities of domestic violence.
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Post by Haley on Mar 7, 2009 16:30:38 GMT -5
According to FOX News, Chris and Rihanna plan to co-author a book and do talk show appearances about the realities of domestic violence. WTF???
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Post by The Northern Star⭐ on Mar 7, 2009 17:21:40 GMT -5
Wow. She really doesn't get it, does she? I'll continue to pray for her.
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Post by WouldYouJumpTheGDTrainAlready? on Mar 7, 2009 17:48:51 GMT -5
Rihanna is not STUPID for taking Chris back. It's a sign that she is suffering from low self-esteem and other issues. Calling someone STUPID and DUMB is way too easy in a case like this, just because you can't understand or wouldn't do what she did herself. She needs therapy and counseling instead of ridicule. She could definitely stand a talk with Tina Turner, as she has been through that hell and knows it's not that easy to just turn your back and walk away on someone you love, even when you should. I really hope she has a wake up call before it's too late though. Rihanna is beyond stupid. She has no kids with him so she can't use that as an excuse like 99% of battered women do. Not only has she ruined her reputation and possibly commited career suicide, she is now looked at a joke and cannot be taken seriously..Any woman who gets bitten, punched and threatened then runs back to her man has no self respect at all. Even Oprah is basically calling her out and is having a show for people like Rihanna. The victims of domestic violence are not "stupid". Far from it. They often fall for those types of guys because of their fathers, in this case, Rihanna's father was heavy into crack which caused the divorce between her parents. It's not an issue of stupidity whatsoever, she's just not in the right frame of mind.
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Post by Kid2Fresh on Mar 7, 2009 19:45:05 GMT -5
I think people are being way to critical of Rihanna. It's her life and nobody on the outside looking in should feel that they have the right to criticize or judge her or her decisions.
I've been (and currently) in love. I know what that feels like. I know how STRONG that emotion is. IDK if any of the people on this forum or people on the blogs or media have ever experienced real love. It's a powerful feeling.
Now I in NO way condone what Chris did to her. And it takes a pretty weak man to EVER put his hands on a woman. That was a real b*tch move on his part. But I'm sure she has prolly played a hand in their problems.
Regardless of all of that, I always look at this like this. "Mess up once, shame on you. Mess up again? Shame on me."
I know I think if you'll put your hands on someone once, you'll do it again, and Rihanna prolly doesn't need to be with her. But if she's a strong woman she will make her demands. You'll NEVER do this to me again. If you ever put your hands on me again or ATTEMPT to do so, there will be dire consequences. And it will be over.
But if she loves him and he gets the help he needs and they BOTH work on their relationship and individual flaws, I believe they can overcome this if they choose too. If he doesn't get better, I believe Rihanna will know enough is enough and leave him.
But as of this moment, I think people should lay off of her and let her work out her problems with her man. Everything will work itself out in the end.
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Post by Deleted on Mar 7, 2009 20:25:00 GMT -5
She's working with Bryan-Michael Cox. I guess she's doing some sappy ballads in response to the incident.
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Post by **βécky**™ on Mar 7, 2009 20:25:56 GMT -5
She's working with Bryan-Michael Cox. I guess she's doing some sappy ballads in response to the incident.
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Post by OH SNAP! on Mar 7, 2009 20:26:42 GMT -5
God help us all. Why do I feel that Rihanna and Chris are going to go down the drain quicker than you can say 'Umbella'?
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Post by Alex on Mar 7, 2009 21:13:31 GMT -5
I think people are being way to critical of Rihanna. It's her life and nobody on the outside looking in should feel that they have the right to criticize or judge her or her decisions. I've been (and currently) in love. I know what that feels like. I know how STRONG that emotion is. IDK if any of the people on this forum or people on the blogs or media have ever experienced real love. It's a powerful feeling. Now I in NO way condone what Chris did to her. And it takes a pretty weak man to EVER put his hands on a woman. That was a real b*tch move on his part. But I'm sure she has prolly played a hand in their problems. Regardless of all of that, I always look at this like this. "Mess up once, shame on you. Mess up again? Shame on me." I know I think if you'll put your hands on someone once, you'll do it again, and Rihanna prolly doesn't need to be with her. But if she's a strong woman she will make her demands. You'll NEVER do this to me again. If you ever put your hands on me again or ATTEMPT to do so, there will be dire consequences. And it will be over. But if she loves him and he gets the help he needs and they BOTH work on their relationship and individual flaws, I believe they can overcome this if they choose too. If he doesn't get better, I believe Rihanna will know enough is enough and leave him. But as of this moment, I think people should lay off of her and let her work out her problems with her man. Everything will work itself out in the end. Kid2Fresh, you dumb as hell. It was CONFIRMED that this was NOT the first time Chris put his hands on RiRi. If she didn't leave him the first 4 times, why would she leave him now. Damn, think b4 you speak Kid2Fresh. RiRi has NO kids with Chris, there is NO REASON for her to stick with the man that almost killed her. Next time, yes NEXT TIME, he's going to get RiRi REAL GOOD as he TOLD HER THAT VERY SAME NITE!!! No one is going to feel sorry for her once he BEATS THAT BARBADOS A$$ again.
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Post by bigbluenote on Mar 7, 2009 23:36:27 GMT -5
I think people are being way to critical of Rihanna. It's her life and nobody on the outside looking in should feel that they have the right to criticize or judge her or her decisions. I've been (and currently) in love. I know what that feels like. I know how STRONG that emotion is. IDK if any of the people on this forum or people on the blogs or media have ever experienced real love. It's a powerful feeling. Now I in NO way condone what Chris did to her. And it takes a pretty weak man to EVER put his hands on a woman. That was a real b*tch move on his part. But I'm sure she has prolly played a hand in their problems. Regardless of all of that, I always look at this like this. "Mess up once, shame on you. Mess up again? Shame on me." I know I think if you'll put your hands on someone once, you'll do it again, and Rihanna prolly doesn't need to be with her. But if she's a strong woman she will make her demands. You'll NEVER do this to me again. If you ever put your hands on me again or ATTEMPT to do so, there will be dire consequences. And it will be over. But if she loves him and he gets the help he needs and they BOTH work on their relationship and individual flaws, I believe they can overcome this if they choose too. If he doesn't get better, I believe Rihanna will know enough is enough and leave him. But as of this moment, I think people should lay off of her and let her work out her problems with her man. Everything will work itself out in the end. Kid2Fresh, you dumb as hell. It was CONFIRMED that this was NOT the first time Chris put his hands on RiRi. If she didn't leave him the first 4 times, why would she leave him now. Damn, think b4 you speak Kid2Fresh. RiRi has NO kids with Chris, there is NO REASON for her to stick with the man that almost killed her. Next time, yes NEXT TIME, he's going to get RiRi REAL GOOD as he TOLD HER THAT VERY SAME NITE!!! No one is going to feel sorry for her once he BEATS THAT BARBADOS A$$ again. Do you call everyone who disagrees with you "dumb as hell"? You did that to me a few days ago. What's up with that?
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Post by ZigaZigHa on Mar 7, 2009 23:44:35 GMT -5
Rihanna deserves to flop with her future projects along with Chris Brown's.
They are showing the world that it is OK to beat a woman just like that. I always thought Rihanna was dumb.
Anyways, both of them dont make their music. They rely heavily on producers and songwriters so it is not like, they will be big losses to the music industry
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Post by Kid2Fresh on Mar 8, 2009 5:19:09 GMT -5
Kid2Fresh, you dumb as hell. It was CONFIRMED that this was NOT the first time Chris put his hands on RiRi. If she didn't leave him the first 4 times, why would she leave him now. Damn, think b4 you speak Kid2Fresh. RiRi has NO kids with Chris, there is NO REASON for her to stick with the man that almost killed her. Next time, yes NEXT TIME, he's going to get RiRi REAL GOOD as he TOLD HER THAT VERY SAME NITE!!! No one is going to feel sorry for her once he BEATS THAT BARBADOS A$$ again. Do you call everyone who disagrees with you "dumb as hell"? You did that to me a few days ago. What's up with that? Oh it's ok bigblue, I'm not trippin on a person who doesn't know how to have a conversation and just disagree without showing how ignorant they are. After a statement like that, I can't take anything you say seriously. Don't even play him/her any mind. But once again, like I said, you do NOT know them OR their situation. All you have to go by is he say/she say. And the media is wrong a good portion of the time so I can't help but take everything with a grain of salt. And even if what they're saying is true, that is THEIR business. I would like to hope that she doesn't have a misconstrued of what love is and just "accept" that behavior. But it's not up to you, nor I, nor Chris, Her Family & Friends, Nor That Judge to make up her mind that she should leave him. It's up to RIHANNA. The way I feel about it, if she loves him that much, she has to love herself MORE so she can stand up and say (like I said in my first "dumb as hell" post) "I'm not taking this from you. I love you and I'd like you in my life but this has to stop. And you need to do whatever is needed for you to fix this problem you have if you ever want to have me in your life again." But once again, that's not up to me. It's up to her. It's in the public eye, people see him as this monster. If they were keeping this underwraps, his family knows, her family knows, their friends know, and now the world knows. That puts pressure on a person and allows you to see the situation for what it is. When a person has a problem, they tend to down play it in their minds and justify it. Now he has no choice but to see that this behavior isn't acceptable and if he's any kind of a decent human being he can change. So pretty much, it's up to HIM to decide that he has to change, not for Rihanna, but for himself so he can be a better person. And it's up to Rihanna if she loves him enough and can see the potential of the person he can be. I say we send them BOTH positive energy and prayer. They'll be ok.
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Post by Kid2Fresh on Mar 8, 2009 5:23:47 GMT -5
Rihanna deserves to flop with her future projects along with Chris Brown's. They are showing the world that it is OK to beat a woman just like that. I always thought Rihanna was dumb. Anyways, both of them dont make their music. They rely heavily on producers and songwriters so it is not like, they will be big losses to the music industry Like I said above. We have no right to judge them or their personal affairs. They're here to entertain us, nothing more. If people would stop looking to celebrities (whose jobs are juuuust to provide us with entertainment) to be perfect role models, and heroes to our children and all that jazz, and people start being accountable for the things that go on in their own lives, we'd all be in a better place. They aren't perfect, they slip and fall just like we do. But just as each of us have the privacy to fall and fix our sh*t in private and amongst family & friends to help and support us, they need the same respects and privacy. Not the world jumping down their throats and prying into their personal lives. That's where the line should be drawn. It's not fair.
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Post by nsfb17 on Mar 8, 2009 14:33:48 GMT -5
Neither makes music. Everything is done for them by a team of producers. well thats ur opinion How can it be an opinion? It's a fact that a large team of producers and writers is responsible for Rihanna's music.
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Post by Kid2Fresh on Mar 8, 2009 14:40:53 GMT -5
How can it be an opinion? It's a fact that a large team of producers and writers is responsible for Rihanna's music. Well can't that be said for anyone who ISN'T a singer-song writer? Somebody has to write the song. Somebody has to produce it. Someone has to style their appearance. Somebody has to choreograph their performances. But the way I feel about it, the artist is the one delivering it to the world. If they lack the confidence or "It" factor to make themselves stand out, then regardless of all the effort put into them, they'll certainly tank. Rihanna has that "It" factor. For the moment anyway.
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Post by Eloqueen™ on Mar 8, 2009 14:45:11 GMT -5
How can it be an opinion? It's a fact that a large team of producers and writers is responsible for Rihanna's music. The same could be said for Britney Spears or any other artist who are not personally responsible for a large majority of their material.
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Post by nsfb17 on Mar 8, 2009 16:08:53 GMT -5
How can it be an opinion? It's a fact that a large team of producers and writers is responsible for Rihanna's music. The same could be said for Britney Spears or any other artist who are not personally responsible for a large majority of their material. I know, and I freely admit that producers and professional songwriters are responsible for the majority of Britney's music. I just don't see how someone can try to pass off the statement that Rihanna doesn't create her own music as an opinion.
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Post by Sir Benji on Mar 8, 2009 17:40:27 GMT -5
She's working with Bryan-Michael Cox. I guess she's doing some sappy ballads in response to the incident. i can't wait to hear what boring filler-esque mess they come up with
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Post by Alex on Mar 8, 2009 19:59:07 GMT -5
Bryan Cox is boring as hell. Almost as bad as old-as-hell Johnta Austin who needs to STOP TRYING TO GO SOLO. We don't want you son. Sit the HELL down/
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Post by tsw2008 on Mar 12, 2009 20:37:55 GMT -5
I can't believe this b**** is recording a duet with Chris Brown..WTF ?. I always knew she was a total airhead but wow this takes the cake. She is not a victim, she is a brand and a definition of a puppet in the hands of her manangement.
I don't feel sorry for her at all. I can't believe she is trying to cash in on this in such a way. Pathetic, pathetic, pathetic.
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