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Post by Dreams on Aug 17, 2023 3:24:10 GMT -5
I thought he wasn't genuine from the beginning. Something, just something, never sat well with me when it came to this guy. In fact, I remember in their wedding pics posted —if you go back a bunch of pages on this very thread, I'm sure you'll see what I'm talking about— Britney was beaming, her eyes were lit up; he was POSING like your average gay IG f#&kboy, lips pursed, eyebrows frowning, glaring at the camera.
Like I said when news broke out that they got married, I hope her $$$ is protected.
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Post by Nick on Aug 17, 2023 8:20:45 GMT -5
I hope she stays single for a while and works on her mental health. I also hope she has a group of close female friends who can support her as she’s going through this.
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Post by upsidedown on Aug 17, 2023 8:28:27 GMT -5
TMZ really needs to get their stories straight. The one out today puts forth a narrative that Britney has no one to turn to in her life, no family, friends, etc. Yet they were pushing yesterday the "Britney cheated" narrative, which... Britney barely does anything or sees anyone, so yeah I'm sure she had time to go out and cheat with someone. And yet, they're saying she went out and cheated... but at the same time has no one in her life. Okay.
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Post by thezatch on Aug 17, 2023 8:30:28 GMT -5
Can we make this go viral somehow? :kii:
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Post by Love Plastic Love on Aug 17, 2023 9:46:23 GMT -5
In fact, I remember in their wedding pics posted —if you go back a bunch of pages on this very thread, I'm sure you'll see what I'm talking about— Britney was beaming, her eyes were lit up; he was POSING like your average gay IG f#&kboy, lips pursed, eyebrows frowning, glaring at the camera. I noticed this as well, even at the time. Britney was happy. He was mugging at the camera, lol.
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Post by Ryan on Aug 17, 2023 11:36:10 GMT -5
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Post by Ivy Leegue™ on Aug 17, 2023 12:51:54 GMT -5
Lizzo did not lie when she asked “why men great TIL they gotta BE great!?” RIP to whatever bit of a career he had. He might be a man but he’s not a White man so the court of public opinion will never forgive nor forget this. I just hope Brit’s okay (or as okay as can be expected). Sam should date Lizzo next. They would make a great couple. I, too, wonder about any potential changes to her book. Then again, the book is such a wildcard overall.
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Post by Ryan on Aug 17, 2023 13:02:30 GMT -5
Rats are out doing ratty things.
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Post by Love Plastic Love on Aug 17, 2023 13:31:47 GMT -5
I feel like Britney can't catch a break. Like, can someone in her life be decent? I just really cannot imagine her being physically violent toward him and cheating. Maybe I'm wrong and the childhood nostalgia is taking over.
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Post by dbhmr on Aug 17, 2023 13:40:20 GMT -5
It would be best to just not make any assumptions--we have no idea how dire Britney's mental health is after what she's been through, and we have no idea how diabolic Sam might be. We don't know these people, and have had especially limited access to their lives. It isn't uncommon for shitty ex-husbands to go after their rich wives' fortunes and try and undo a prenup, nor is it uncommon--or even unfair--to go after a prenup if it was violated.
Regardless, it would be best for her to just go into some facility for a year to get some intensive, private treatment and be off social media/out of the public eye. Instead, she's releasing a memoir and doing some sort of press tour. No one seems to be in her corner, and I'm not sure she's capable of doing herself any favors.
Just all really sad.
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Post by Ryan on Aug 17, 2023 13:54:11 GMT -5
While I'm 1,000% behind her, I hope they just postpone the release of the memoir until the divorce's settled. While it's going to sell like hot cakes for sure, I'm afraid that kind of media/public attention is not what she needs right now. Until she has a proper team to back her up, I don't want her to do a big sit-down interview, either.
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Post by It's me, bitch. on Aug 17, 2023 15:03:30 GMT -5
It would be best to just not make any assumptions--we have no idea how dire Britney's mental health is after what she's been through, and we have no idea how diabolic Sam might be. We don't know these people, and have had especially limited access to their lives. It isn't uncommon for shitty ex-husbands to go after their rich wives' fortunes and try and undo a prenup, nor is it uncommon--or even unfair--to go after a prenup if it was violated. Regardless, it would be best for her to just go into some facility for a year to get some intensive, private treatment and be off social media/out of the public eye. Instead, she's releasing a memoir and doing some sort of press tour. No one seems to be in her corner, and I'm not sure she's capable of doing herself any favors. Just all really sad. Well said!
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Post by Juan Carlos on Aug 17, 2023 15:47:15 GMT -5
If this somehow turns out to be true, will.i.am needs to be out of this. Seriously.
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Post by think pink. on Aug 17, 2023 15:57:20 GMT -5
Sam is now alleging that she cheated on him with a male staffer and has footage of them in a compromising position. That could be revenge porn no?. Like at what point is this not extortion?.
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Post by Love Plastic Love on Aug 17, 2023 15:59:50 GMT -5
Sam is now alleging that she cheated on him with a male staffer and has footage of them in a compromising position. That could be revenge porn no?. Like at what point is this not extortion?. It's complicated because a lot of prenups have infidelity clauses of some sort or just generally abuse and/or infidelity can complicate a prenup. Judges can rule them as mitigating factors in the agreement. So, it might be part of the evidence if he is challenging the prenup rather than "just" extortion or revenge porn.
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Post by think pink. on Aug 17, 2023 16:06:51 GMT -5
Sam is now alleging that she cheated on him with a male staffer and has footage of them in a compromising position. That could be revenge porn no?. Like at what point is this not extortion?. It's complicated because a lot of prenups have infidelity clauses of some sort or just generally abuse and/or infidelity can complicate a prenup. Judges can rule them as mitigating factors in the agreement. So, it might be part of the evidence if he is challenging the prenup rather than "just" extortion or revenge porn. But wouldn’t that have to stay private just for the courts to see?. Like if he leaks it to the media, that should be classified as revenge porn.
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Post by It's me, bitch. on Aug 17, 2023 17:02:14 GMT -5
Sam just confirmed on his IG.
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Post by Daenerys on Aug 17, 2023 17:02:20 GMT -5
Everyone wants Britney to quietly crawl away and cry in a bathtub, but I sort of want to see the opposite from her. Would love her to go full Daenerys Targaryen or Scarlet Witch on all the people who wronged her, and reclaim the narrative of her life, rather than letting all of the people who abused her have the last say on her own story.
It really doesn’t sit right with me when I see some of these posts saying she should just lay down, lay low, take it, and let everyone else walk all over her. That’s not healthy. She deserves to have an outlet and to actualize herself in the best way she’s able in all aspects of her life.
Wishing her the best. Many sources are reporting she’s been back in the studio and planning an album campaign since mid-summer. Even during the backdrop of all of the drama with Sam, the separation, and now divorce news.
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Post by Ivy Leegue™ on Aug 17, 2023 17:03:47 GMT -5
Sam just confirmed on his IG. LOL shit happens, he says. Also, he spelled ridiculous incorrectly, but...yeah.
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Post by Love Plastic Love on Aug 17, 2023 17:13:32 GMT -5
It's complicated because a lot of prenups have infidelity clauses of some sort or just generally abuse and/or infidelity can complicate a prenup. Judges can rule them as mitigating factors in the agreement. So, it might be part of the evidence if he is challenging the prenup rather than "just" extortion or revenge porn. But wouldn’t that have to stay private just for the courts to see?. Like if he leaks it to the media, that should be classified as revenge porn. I'm not sure how that works. IF there is a video and he releases it, then that may be an issue. Just claiming it as part of the divorce proceedings I do not think would be revenge porn. She has a great divorce lawyer though so I hope the lawyer is going to bat for her either way.
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Post by dbhmr on Aug 17, 2023 17:27:30 GMT -5
It really doesn’t sit right with me when I see some of these posts saying she should just lay down, lay low, take it, and let everyone else walk all over her. That’s not healthy. She deserves to have an outlet and to actualize herself in the best way she’s able in all aspects of her life. You're making a whole fantasy up in your head lol
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Post by Ivy Leegue™ on Aug 17, 2023 17:40:55 GMT -5
From The Desk of Miss Coco (verbatim): Sam Ashitty will reap what he has sowed he messed with Britney and evoked the anger in Coco. I already vodoo dolls for his ass. I knew his big boxed jaw was a fraud from day. He ain't no actor nor model just a professional griftere and these billion dollar worth talented women need to stop getting these bitch ass men and find them a equally yoked man who isn't using them for clout and paper. Ugh, I miss Coco so much.
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Post by Choco on Aug 17, 2023 17:46:58 GMT -5
Asghari's lawyer claims he is not contesting the pre-nup.
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Post by Deleted on Aug 17, 2023 17:57:18 GMT -5
Team Sam! Brit is a hot mess. I couldn't imagine living with someone that fucking unstable ALL the time. Wish her the best and hope we don't all wake up one day to the tragic news Britney is dead.
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Post by Choco on Aug 17, 2023 18:03:56 GMT -5
This woman has done some fine ass reporting on Britney since the #FreeBritney days. Imma believe her and I'm glad the pre-nup is good.
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Post by Ivy Leegue™ on Aug 17, 2023 18:08:50 GMT -5
Team Sam! Brit is a hot mess. I couldn't imagine living with someone that fucking unstable ALL the time. Wish her the best and hope we don't all wake up one day to the tragic news Britney is dead.I'm not so sure you mean that bolded part given how this post started. I mean...who, but you, is so enthusiastically cheerleading for Sam Ashycigari, LOL.
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Post by Koochie on Aug 17, 2023 18:18:14 GMT -5
Edit: can confirm Elizabeth is reliable. She’s definitely wacky, but she’s not stupid. Him walking back on contesting the prenup while also alleging she’s abusive feels really calculated. Why even bother airing out all this dirty laundry then? Fwiw, I could actually buy her getting violent in her sleep, but not deliberately. The only thing she’s outright stated is that she has PTSD and acting out in your sleep isn’t unheard of. I still think it’s sus as hell, but on the slim-to-none chance it’s legit then that’s missing a ton of context. This is so shit. I think the fairest take thus far has been dbhmr’s (on brand). She needs a sabbatical from the public. I don’t know if an institution is the right answer though, or if one even exists. There’s a lot we don’t know, but there’s a lot that’s just out there for the public to speculate on. Setting aside the divorce, her relationship with the public in general makes her situation uniquely complicated in a way I don’t think any normal person can understand. I’m not saying nothing should be done, but I don’t even know how someone in her position finds meaningful help or personal relationships. She could always pull a Courtney Love and fuck off the grid indefinitely, or at least until another Malaysian flight goes missing. Team Sam! Brit is a hot mess. I couldn't imagine living with someone that fucking unstable ALL the time. Wish her the best and hope we don't all wake up one day to the tragic news Britney is dead. to say this one was undercooked would be an understatement
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Post by Deleted on Aug 17, 2023 18:31:46 GMT -5
Team Sam! Brit is a hot mess. I couldn't imagine living with someone that fucking unstable ALL the time. Wish her the best and hope we don't all wake up one day to the tragic news Britney is dead.I'm not so sure you mean that bolded part given how this post started. I mean...who, but you, is so enthusiastically cheerleading for Sam Ashycigari, LOL. I love Britney and always have. I don't know much about Sam, but please, enlighten me as to what he has done so wrong. And as far as the divorce goes, I am team Sam. A person can only deal with so much. I genuinely hope she gets well soon.
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Post by Marooned@Midnight on Aug 17, 2023 18:36:18 GMT -5
I’ve always been of this opinion…with fans like hers who the hell needs enemies? This thread is more toxic than pop radio in 2004. Maybe she should seek advice from the many doctors and mental health professionals pulse seems to attract. *vomit*
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Post by Koochie on Aug 17, 2023 19:07:07 GMT -5
I’ve always been of this opinion…with fans like hers who the hell needs enemies? This thread is more toxic than pop radio in 2004. Maybe she should seek advice from the many doctors and mental health professionals pulse seems to attract. *vomit* Yeah there’s like maybe 2 people in here that I can trust to speak to this with any nuance at all lmao it’s so frustrating Thing is a lot of people just don’t seem to care either. Mental health is still something we’re all learning to address to be fair, but like… I mean, I don’t have a psych degree, but I do have a medical degree and went out of my way to put a ton of emphasis on psych. I won’t pretend to know everything either (even therapists don’t; I told mine about a disorder the other day he’d never even heard of lmao), but I know enough that following Britney for the past few years has been frustrating as hell.
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